Description
Author: Jill Rigby
Publisher: Howard Books, New York, NY
Year: 2013
Pages: 237
In an effort to raise children with a healthy view of themselves, parents often focus on self-esteem rather than self-respect. Author Jill Rigby says there’s a big difference. It’s the difference between self-centered and others-centered children, the difference between performance-driven and purpose-focused teenagers.
This book examines three different styles of parenting—parent-centered, child-centered, and character-centered. Drawing a distinction between performance and purpose, this book maintains that rather than focusing on what you want your child to do, you ask what you want your child to become. Finally, Rigby calls for parents to discipline (teach) their children rather than punish them.